We all know that there is a difference in joining Grad chapters vs. undergrad when there was the unilateral switch to "processes" in all NPHC affiliates...
Therefore, the little "innocent" stuff cain't happen no mo'--such as making up chants for the Dean of Pledges, giving gifts to all the big sisters, all line sisters/brothers wearing the same clothing at all times, walking with a purpose and being in on line--trudging--I guess they call it these days...
When I spoke to my Soror Mom that we couldn't do that stuff anymore, she--the Silver Star--said "Hey, that's the
FUN stuff!!!"
But then folks havta take too far, folks got killt and folx sued and won...
That's why there was a moratorium and a massive switch to MIPing

--hence, numerous undergrad chapters went underground to still get that "flava"...
Just goto
www.kazodiass.com to see all the stuff "they" say 'bout skaters and all...
So, if I tell them in my monotone voice 'cuz I've yelled it, I've screamed it, I've cursed them owt, I've repeated it 1000 times, over and over again--"No, don't, stop, suspend, relax, release, pearls pulled, expelled, exhale..." and it doesn't make a difference, then I feel I may as well ADVISE them that they can get caught. And if they are stupid enuf to get caught--I WILL act "GRAD" and disavow any and all information... Which I might get them into more trouble-- And it means, they chit gotta be tight... 'Specially when The Matrix has you...
So when some undergrad sorors, fellow sorority sisters and brothers come upto me asking 'bout it, 'bout it and saying that any true to life "skater" who comes all out with ill-deserved 'nalia-ed out, hatin' on the hard work pledges go thru that gets the chapter awards for charter keepin' and the greeks know they will be ostracizingly ugly and mean--I say:
Be nice...
And if you can't be nice, don't be harsh...
And if you havta be harsh, don't be severe...
And love one another and I have loved you--so you must love one another...