My big and I were really not that close, because she was graduating the semester. She dropped off the face of the Earth after graduation, but I did see her the first homecoming after I was an active. And then nothing. I haven't heard anything from her since Spring 2002.

I'm not worried about my Big anymore, because I know that she is working on an advanced degree out in Pittsburgh (She's from that area of PA.)
On the other hand, I'm close to my little. We met at a bowling rush this past semester. She and I were very close even then. I knew that I wanted her as my little. We talk all the time and she is more like my best friend than just my little. She considers me to be an older sister that she never had..