Quote:
Originally posted by Eirene_DGP
Aside from the dude not wearing the ring, I think the husband was wrong for putting himself in situation(s) to make it appear as though he were available. Once your married as deltaphi94 mentioned, I don't see why your wife cannot be in the same social setting as you. I've always heard that it is best for married couples to mix and mingle with other married couples.
|
OK I SOOOOOOO disagree with this.
I'm not married, but have been in a relationship long enough that I might as well be. I love going out to clubs and dancing. Mr 33 hates it. I'm not going to force him to go with me, nor is he going to force me to stay home. That would just make both of us unhappy.
My dad belongs to a hunting camp that is very (ahem) rustic. My mother went with him once (she is like me - roughing it is not enough towels in the hotel) and said she never ever ever wanted to go again, but she wasn't going to stop him from going.
All couples should spend time apart from each other occasionally, and to say that marrieds should only socialize with marrieds - I don't even want to start on that one. If someone's really your friend, you don't dump them or not do things with them because they're not married and you are (or vice versa).
If a married man or woman can't go out for a night with the boys/girls without getting into trouble, the marriage had problems to begin with.