While part of me would worry a little bit that a girl went through a pledge process for another sorority, I can see how a girl would feel pressured to join once she receives a bid, or find out that the girls are very different than they once thought. If I had gotten my second choice, I would have been very disappointed, but I probably would have sucked it up and put up with it because a year seemed like such a long time, especially if maybe Alpha Phi hadn't wanted me.
I have to admit though, it takes guts to go through Formal Recruitment a second time, knowing that you have to face your old house.
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My love's the ivy, my love's forget-me-nots, my love's the silver and bordeaux.
TKE Omicron Nu Chapter Sweetheart 2003
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