I have to agree 100%! with what all the now initated PNM have to say. When i was pursuing AI with Alpha Phi i would not tell a soul( ok a few knew and only a select few.) I mean it was tougher then any coll. rush will ever be. Rush on campus is 3 to 4 days. how do you really get to know someone in those few days whenthere are others you need to know too. AI is being on display until the chapter decides sure were going to/ or were not going to elect to initate this woman. Longer drawn out process. and a lot of down time of waiting. Waiting is by far the wrost feeling ever in a AI prusuit.

I searched out , to be honest with you 3 groups that were on top of my list and A Phi was #1. But it is suicide in letting it out that your looking. ppl talk, things get around. But i knew from the first time i saw Alpha Phi and someone said to me you should check out APhi i knew it was home.

Don't get frustrated with these PNAI's they are protecting a dream they have and not to have anything go wrong with it. They want to know that all looseends are tied up and confirmed before letting it out where there home will be.


Former PNAIM,
Laura