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My niece went through something similar at A&M. (Your description of yourself fits her to a "T")
The only difference is, she went to pref, but didn't sign a bid card. She wanted to be a Theta. She was very good friends with a few and the next year, they really pulled for her. She went to KKG and Theta pref and said she could have been happy in either house. There were other houses as well that she also liked.
If she had not swallowed her pride and gone back with head held high, she wouldn't have become a THETA. You can do it! Sometimes, after spending a year on campus, you can have a little bit of an edge if you have good friends on the inside and people have seen you around. Wanted to add it sounds like your Rho Chi did a good job.
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