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I say go for it. You made a very difficult decision to depledge, but if you knew that you wouldn't be happy, then you made the right choice. You obviously are going into this again with a very open mind, and many people might have been soured on the same experience.
We had a girl pledge a couple of years back, and then depledge, and go through Formal Rush again. I don't know the background behind why she depledged, but I do know that we still really liked her and kept inviting her back. After the first day, she wouldn't come into the house, and sat outside with her Rho Chi for the entire party. We kind of got the clue that even though we still liked her, she was obviously uncomforable, and we cut her after that. We hoped that she would have the chance to go to a chapter that made her happier. Just remember that if you don't want to go to a party, you don't have to. And I'm sure that this time, you'll find the right place for you!
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