Excuse my language, but this scares the hell out of me.

I'm newly engaged, and my fiance and are are secure in the knowledge that we want to be together, for life.

But then again, we just saw a close couple-friend of ours break off their engagement, seemingly overnight. One day they were planning their wedding, the next day she left him. They, as far as anyone could tell, had a great relationship. I'm good friends with him, and he said he never in a million years saw it coming.

I think about my fiance, and how I'm really the first serious relationship he's ever had. We've both dated around... but I've had other serious relationships... he hasn't.

I'm totally scared that someday in 10 years, he's going to decide, hm, this sucks.

He swears it never will (we've talked about it a lot)... but I'm sure these men never thought they would feel that way either.

this is what happens when you don't get enough sleep... you fret over things that are totally unrelated to you!