[33girl]

Nichole,

This is a dumb question, but did anyone in the chapter keep in touch with you to see what you were doing? Especially if they were at total...they would have wanted to see the semester following if you were planning to depledge, as someone else could have filled the spot.

Oh, and for that lady in Greek Life to tell you to explore other options was downright rude IMO - especially if you told her you still definitely wanted to be part of ZTA.

I'm sorry but this just kind of boggles my mind...how big are the groups there? Similar stuff like this occurred in my chapter, with girls taking off school and such, and we never let the girls fall so out of touch that they didn't know 100% that expired bid or no expired bid we still wanted them to be part of us. We would never have thought of not rebidding them...it would be a slap in the face. And I can't believe that anyone thinks this is OK or right in this situation.