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Originally posted by AXWhoah
Knowing that that potential is there is what makes some of us feel uncomfortable. So I am not closed minded, thank you.
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actually, that is exactly what makes you closed minded. i am sure that you are surrounded by more people who are gay or bi than you think. i am sure they wouldn't "come out" to you bc they already know your opinion.
let's say you are in a work place...there is someone that you are really attracted to, but your job has a no- dating policy....what do you do? you get over it!!!
i know many gay/lesbian/bi people whom i consider to be very good friends. they would not join a sorority to "meet" people to date. they are looking for the same bonds of friendship and family that you are. what if your biological sibling was gay/lesbian/bi? would you turn your back on them? would you worry that they would want to date your friends? no, you would love them for WHO THEY ARE. give people a chance! you might even like what you find underneath their "gayness."
oh, someone mentioned gay fraternities...there are also sororities founded by lesbian women for lesbian women...i wish i could remember their names.