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Originally posted by AXWhoah
A girl should always be able to feel her most comfortable around her sisters. And I think that even though a lesbian sorority member may not be attracted to her sisters there is always that potential there. I mean put me in a group with 150 men I am bound to find one of them attractive. Knowing that that potential is there is what makes some of us feel uncomfortable. So I am not closed minded, thank you.
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Well put! I don't think of myself as closed minded at all. I am pretty sure I know what campus AXWoah is from and it's similar to mine in some respects. Campus climate has a lot to do with it, trust me. I don't want a girl in my house who's going to be uncomfortable and I am just being honest when I'm saying that she might feel a little bit uncomfortable in my house and probably several others on my campus. Yes this is 2003 and I know everyone thinks that we should all be "above" discriminating those who are attracted to the same sex. And I'm glad that you guys are so optomistic in thinking that everyone should and does think like this but you know what, MANY parts of the country are much worse than even my school when it comes to this. I'm from the Midwest and I go to school here, I don't generally tend to think our thinking is as forward as a place like LA or NYC or something. We don't discriminate, but everyone in my sorority is allowed to their own opinion. Some people in my house have never even met a homosexual person and they might not feel that they know how to act. All I'm saying is that to each their own, we don't discriminate, but I am pretty sure most of my chapter wouldn't be comfortable with the idea. Whoever started this thread hopefully wanted honest opinions and though AXWoah and I went against the majority doesn't mean our thinking is wrong. I'm sorry if this sounds bitchy it's not meant too, I am so sleepy right now. Anyway, I hope I didn't offend anybody, just trying to help people get a better understanding of what I think.
BTW, I cleaned out my PM box AXWoah
