hummm ... well i guess i was out when i was a PNM ... not that it ever came up as a topic of conversation ... so i dunno who knew or not ... my sisters dont seem to mind ... they LOVE my girlfriend (who happens to be a sorority girl and on gc somewhere) ... and if they have a problem ... no one has mentioned it to me yet ... oh ... and i dont hit on my sisters
But i think it does hurt you chances in some sororities/fraternities ... but then again ... if they had given you a bid ... would you want to be in a group that would have droped you if they had known you date people of the same sex?