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Originally posted by sugarandspice
I don't think you should always take a legacy, but I think there should be a good reason not to if you decide this is the case.
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I second that emotion.
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Originally posted by meridionaleDG
The next question is, how do you tell their mom or grandmother the reason when they call all upset?
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I don't know how other sororities work this, but in Kappa, we give no information to the legacy relation. If they call all pissy, we just have to say, "I'm sorry, but we do not discuss membership selection outside of the chapter." The only people who know what's going on are the chapter actives and the membership advisor(s). The rule is widely published and the same all throughout Kappa, so alumnae know not to put actives in that uncomfortable situation. We do not inform legacies' relations if the legacy is released; that information belongs to the legacy alone.