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Been there, done that!
My first real relationship lasted a year and a half and I ended it also. We'd started the who space thing (well HE did) and by the middle of the summer we weren't a couple anymore. It was like he got the space he wanted and I had the lonely heart. Finally one day in September I just ended it and he didn't fight and I tried not to cry and he acted all surprised. We never spoke after that. It took me forever to get over it. But I had to keep telling myself that it was for the best. We weren't going anywhere together...
So keep a clear mind. Don't fool yourself into believing you'll get back together. And furthermore, DON'T DON'T DON'T try the "friends" thing right away. It'll only bring tension and heartache because you know eachother too well outside of the friendship boundaries.
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