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Originally posted by absolutuscchick
But what would happen if a girl transferred to a new school, knew no one, and assumes that atleast her SISTERS would be there for her? And if they didn't get along the best, I would assume that the girl would not want to be a part of the house. But I just know if I transferred (which is hard enough!) and my sisters "let me down" (atleast that's how I would feel), I would be really, really hurt.
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Well, I think it depends on the chapter. If you don't have this happening a lot, you're probably not going to blink an eyelash - you'll just figure she transferred for normal reasons (major change, further/closer to home, $$$) and welcome her. But if you are a school like Auburn, where it's a social must not just to be in a sorority but the RIGHT sorority, and this happens often, you are probably going to give everyone a more serious once-over even if their reasons are legit. One thing I have learned in my life is that popular people really resent being used by someone climbing the social ladder...as well they should. If you transfer to a school like that with legit reasons, just realize this will happen & don't take it personally.