I'm so sorry,
Moxie! AchtungBoy and I are having problems, too, so I can sort of sympathize with you. I do have a story that might make you feel better, though...
During her senior year in high school, one of my best friends started dating a guy she'd liked for a while. In no time at all, they were inseparable, but then he started smothering her...he was over at her house every single night, calling her incessantly, just annoying her. So she decided to end it, even though she loved him. Well, the semester after that she was in a car accident (she got hit by a car on the Interstate and broke her leg really badly), and this guy was over at her house in a flash wanting to know if there was anything he could do. He was really sweet to her while she was cooped up in the house unable to walk, and thankfully he got the hint about not smothering her so much so they got back together. That was about four years ago, and their wedding is in October.