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Originally posted by justamom
sugarandspice-I don't think you should always take a legacy, but I think there should be a good reason not to if you decide this is the case.
I think this would be the most "perfect" way it could be handled.
I wish this were the rule of thumb-and perhaps it really is.
In my heart, I think there should be NO EXCEPTION if an IN HOUSE legacy wants to be there. OK...baring any criminal records, slutty behavior or failure to make the grades required...I'm talking a normal, all around, regular girl.
If her sister is active, she should be invited as well. I would only hope this is the way it is.
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That wasn't the case for a friend of mine when she went to Ok State. It was so sad, her older sister was devastated, she was very close to dissaffiliating. And my friend was a great PNM. Valedvictorian of our class, into all sorts of activities & sports, a very good looking young woman. But she was voted against. She went to another very good house, but they probably are both not involved now that they are alumna. The organization probably lost out on two sisters active for life, because a few people wanted to vote no to one. Very sad.