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We've never had a legacy. (Ok so part of that is AST is TINY) but anyhow, it seems like if any of our alumnae had a daughter go through they'd put tons of pressure on us. I totally understand the connection thing, but there is a point when parents/alumnae need to let both the chapter/daughter make their own choice and respect that choice, not just stop supporting it. Chapter's have personalitites that change. I think legacies are a great idea, and the chapter's that scrutinize them need to relax but so do parents. I don't mean to blame alumnae, it isn't only their fault but the chapter's too. it's like the last few posts pointed out, what is more important, their college experience or their letters?
edit- ok so say you accept every legacy except the slutty, poor grades etc. how do you explain that to an alumna when she thinks you've just rejected her daughter on the grounds of being slutty? and what if that is only a rumor? you've just labeled her to everyother sorority... just a thought...
Last edited by Little E; 07-15-2003 at 10:30 AM.
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