thinking back on my own experience rushing as a freshman, i know that if i had not gotten into alpha chi, i wouldn't have cried on bid day - but i would have cried later for sure! since rush is so early, i really had no clue what greek life was about or what other chapters were *REALLY* like on campus (like the girl who saw how XYZ sisters were behaving in an unladylike way after bid day)...my second choice on my pref night card (you have to pick 3) would have been sooooooo wrong for me in the end...i know it probably would have helped if i had talked to some older non-Greek friends before i preffed so i could get other opinions
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