I don't think you should always take a legacy, but I think there should be a good reason not to if you decide this is the case.
I'd love for my future daughters to become Tri Delts if at all possible . . . but I know that no matter what they end up like, they're not going to fit in at every Tri Delta chapter around the nation. (I know I wouldn't!) I'd rather they have a great Greek experience, regardless of their affiliation, or even just a great college experience, Greek or not, than end up in a chapter they're going to hate just because the chapter felt pressured to extend them a bid or they felt pressured to join that chapter because I was a Tri Delt.
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