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Out of respect for the Alumnae and for the organization, I think it's important to extend bids to legacies. Legacies are an important part of an organization. Not extending a bid could cause hurt and resentment from the Alumnae. This could cause the Alumnae to lose respect for their organizations, thereby excluding themselves from their Alumnae group and hence, philanthropic work, donations, referrals, etc.

If my hypothetcial daughter attends a school where a Sigma Kappa chapter exists, and is not extended a bid, I would be hurt. If it's her choice to join another organization that would be different. Although I might still feel hurt, it would be a different type of hurt. It's the choice factor.

My opinion stems from the fact that I have a strong desire for tradition, I am proud of my organization, and I hope that my hypothetical daughter is given the chance, if nothing else, to be a part of our mystic bond.

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Due to my beliefs on legacies, I regret not
speaking up on behalf of a legacy and potential
new member during my one and only recruitment experience.