One thing you might ask about, something that was done at my pref with DG was that each PNM was paired with a Sister, but then two pairs were always together...so it was two sisters and two PNM's...that way we got to know a few of our possible future pledge sisters as well as more sisters...maybe if you did this with someone (say a really really excellent rusher) then you wouldn't feel so much pressure.
Just a thought.
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