I am so moved at these Rho Chi stories...the preparation, the love you've put into your job.
I've seen some good Rho Chis over the years. I've seen some that were awful--whose sororities probably nominated them for Rho Chis to make sure they weren't rushing.
Some have gone to extra lengths to see that their girls get placed. Others have pushed or even bullied girls into groups that were all wrong for them. Some have done a stellar job in teaching PNMs to have an open mind. Others have left PNMs who have been released alone in their rooms for the rest of rush--far from home--with nothing to do.
God bless you, Rho Chis! Y'all please make a positive impression on these rushees!