[Pike4Life]

Originally posted by NoLongerGreek:
We have similar information for a reason, Dewgirl-- I dated a Pike for a year. I was not permitted to wear letters until we were "ready to get engaged", but that differs amongst chapters from what I understand. One Pike came up to visit last weekend and his girlfriend of a week was allowed to wear his letters.

I'm a Pike Alum and current Pike chapter advisor, andn I can tell you that NO ONE other than the mother, wife, widow, daughter, sister, fiancee, or chapter housemother, are allowed to wear the Badge (Brother's Pin). LEtters are a different thing...depends on the chapter, but most do not allow anyone but those that are lavaliered or made a Dreamgirl to wear the letters. And in regards to the Ritual and Secrets, NO ONE outside the initiated Brothers is permitted to have access or be told about our Secrets...not your mother, your wife, NOBODY!!

Having a boyfriend in a fraternity, though, I think you're bound to find out at least a few things that you're probably not supposed to know... unless the man and his brothers are overly cautious about what they say.