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Originally posted by delph998
There have been some studies that show that some people who do this are disappointed when their children act the OPPOSITE of the sex they are (ie. female that's a tomboy). Does that change your mind on if you would do it or not?
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Well, what are the odds? I mean, it's all a game of chance, so to speak. One may get a girl that is a tomboy, just like they may get a boy that may be "feminine." Then again, maybe not. To some people, that's worth the risk. Some people just want a particular gender in their physical sense. Like, I know some women may want a girl to dress up and do their hair, but some women just want a girl for the sake of saying they have a daughter. Feel me?
I, personally, don't think that I would do it unless I discover that I, or my future husband (whomever he may be), has some sort of defect in the genes. I have always said that I want to have boys first so that my daughter(s) can have older brothers (because I wish I had one), but I will be happy with whichever God gives me.