How can it be o.k if you vow never to reveal any of their secrets or rituals to anyone. Best friends who are not in the same organization may reveal them another time or whose to say you won't ever get in a fight. If you tell everything then nothing is a secret to find out. My sister is a member of my sorority and never told me any secrets until the day I became a member. I would love to tell my own daughter, but I just can't because I would be breaking a vow. My spouse doesn not even know. And NO nothing was so bad at initiation that I could not tell it.
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