no, it is never okay to tell anyone. i didn't tell my sister, my mother, my best friend...not anyone. however, when i was president last year, my rule about pleding my new girls was that they were not allowed to participate in anything that they would be embarassed or scared to tell thier parents about. if you can't tell someone what you do because it's THAT BAD, it's probably wrong. but if you DON'T tell someone what you do because you're LOYAL...that's trust and honesty within the organization.
etienne
sigma alpha iota-the hartt school of music
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"red is the color of music and has been since the very earliest of times. the caps of faeries and musicians are well-nigh always red."~*~w.b.yeats
"I think that happiness is when you can let yourself feel every emotion you want at any time instead of being a lying little fuck." - Tori Amos
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