Sorry to crash the DST forum
As for people wanting a little girl to dress up or a little boy for little league..
My mom always says how she waiting 7 years for a little girl (for some of those very reasons). While she did dress me in frilly dresses a lot as a baby, I couldn't have been more of a tom boy. So just because I came out a girl, doesn't mean she got to play Barbie's with me a whole lot.