Pink Bunny, I hear what you are saying and it really irritates me, too. I think more emphasis has to be placed on discretion.
Another problem I find contributing to AKA business being "out there" is when a soror is initiated and she realizes that AKA is not the sorority for her. She no longer has the love or respect for AKA that other soros have. Or sorors who think that it is ok to tell something she views as insignificant to the process.
On my college campus, I remember how people were also trying to get into AKA business. Ladies attended our rush just to see who would be there, guys followed us in their cars hoping we would lead them to the location of the initiation process, etc. It was really ridiculous.
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