[AKA_Monet]

On school campuses, it is hard to know what is cool and what is uncool. So some folks just reject the whole idea and make up their own way of coolness, which makes those that choose that way have to be strong to stand up for their beliefs in spite of things...

One would not have made that comment if she, herself what not interested at one time... She herself is rebuking the system that has developed for individuals to join sororities... The question is, how should one show interest in a sorority given what the members themselves are unable to do?

Many of my sands in other chapters that entered under similar circumstances as I in an undergraduate chapter, were told: "Birds of a feather flock together..." It is a matter of what is important to you. If you desire a goal, will you let someone stop you? Who is going to be in control of your achievement? And why would you care if someone says anything? Are you not going to do what you ultimately what to do in the long run?

Maybe I have gotten too old to relate to this stuff, so I'll stop here...