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I agree with everything that's been said. It's sad that some people have nothing better to do but hey...what can you do about it. Just make sure you distance yourself from those people.
I had a similar problem. I knew that I wanted to be apart of a sorority and even if I wanted to tell my friends, I couldn't, (even though I would never tell them which one). Whenever the topic of greeks in general came up, they would swear how it was stupid to buy friends, and do whatever just to belong, etc. They always had something negative to say. So finally I went to lunch with a member on my campus and expressed my interest and she basically told me to get rid of all the negative around me even if it included so called friends. If they couldn't be happy for something that I thought was important then what kind of friends where they anyway. Sometimes its hard to just stop being around people but it usually pays off.
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