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I used to have a roommate (not a Zeta) that was the same way and her boyfriend was even worse. They would drink all my Cokes, eat all my food and take my toothpaste and shampoo when they were out. We sat down to talk about it and she was very hurt that I wouldn't share my things with her and offered to let me take food or whatever of hers. What was so frustrating was that she was so busy taking my things that she never bought any of her own!

I can laugh about it now, over a decade later, but it got even worse after that. She and her boyfriend continued to raid my groceries, even after I stored the non-refrigerated items in my room and locking it! They broke my blender, the boyfriend started selling pot out of our apartment and then he killed my hamster by blowing smoke in the cage. This guy scared me. He was into working out and possibly on steroids. He would get really mad at me because I wouldn't smoke pot or invite Zetas or other friends over. He knew that I had a lot of friends and wanted to sell to them without having to leave our apartment. I was terrified that I'd get a bad reputation and/or arrested.

I stayed with friends until I could get a place of my own. She never understood what the big deal was and thought I was just selfish. Get yourself out of there as fast as possible and hope you can laugh about it later. Good luck!