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Originally posted by aabby757
If you really think about, and am honest, isn't it prejudical to vote no for a young woman who is poor, ugly, overweight, has zits, isn't smart, etc?
Thoughts?
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i think so...luckily, i really never saw this with my chapter. there were people we didn't offer bids to, but the reasons really had nothing to do with their physical apperance. one instance i remember clearly was a PNM had threatened one of the sisters the year before. who wants a member who is going around physically threatening others???
as i am learning more and more about the large sec school rushes, i think that i would never have gotten a bid anywhere. coming out of hs, i had over a 4.0 gpa, was in a zillion things, held 2 jobs, weighed 120lbs, etc., but i really think that i wouldn't have been offered a bid. when jam and carnation talk about all of these wonderful women who go through rush and end up bidless, i know that would be me. what happens to these women? especially if they are legacies and their mothers/ sisters are very involved...they must feel left out... do they eventually look to alum initiation?