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Originally posted by The Original Ape
Inspite of the choice of words used in conveying the points, my Bruh's point is true. The "double standard" has flipped and multiplied outrageously. The sad part about it is that most of the ladies reading it will immediately feel attacked and defensive instead of looking at themselves, their friends, and at the sistas across this country to see if any of it applies at all. They know that all that glitters aint gold; and every sista out there DON'T deserve to be called "diva", or treated like a beautiful African princess.
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I agree with you to an extent. Not everyone woman out there has her stuff together. BUT, just because she doesn't carry herself as a beautiful African princess, doesn't mean she doesn't
deserve to be treated as such. We all have to be held accountable for OUR OWN actions, and who says that you (not you personally, just making a statement) should be the one to treat her a certain way because she was 'asking for it'? I'm not saying that if the sista that you see is a hoodrat/scallywag/golddigger/loose-lucy, that you should go out of your way to be the gracious gentleman at her disposal...don't be stupid, just don't associate with her...period.