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Some info I got off th web!
You know, after reading some of these boards for a
number of weeks, I have come to an interesting
conclusion. SOME SINGLE and MARRIED BW are so 'puffed
up' about their educations, their earnings, and
themselves...its NO WONDER that they can't either FIND
a GOOD Black man, or KEEP a GOOD Black man.
Brothers AROUND THE WORLD are rapidly getting tired of
the whining, pressuring, pestering, and
self-exhaltation tactics being done with a
Eurocentric, or a Motherland feel.
WE came to this country on the SAME SHIPS. NOW, SOME
sistahs act as if Black Men eagerly swam into slavery,
while Black women were 'kidnapped'?
Let's answer a few questions...Sistahs...
Check it.
*If a BM wants to better himself, he is 'Trying to be
white'. If a BW wants to better herself she is 'held
to be a role model'.
*If a BM is confident...he is 'Arrogant'. If a BW is
confident...she is 'Independent'.
*If a BM wants to pay for a date, he is 'trying to buy
some'. If a BW accepts, she is 'a shrewd
businesswoman'.
*If a BM disagrees with a BW, he is 'Abusive'. If a
BW disagrees with a BM, she is 'expressing her
opinion'.
*If a BM is educated...he is a 'Nerd'. If a BW is
educated...she is 'Vital'.
*If a BM does NOT want to get married...he is 'unable
to make up his mind'. If a BW does NOT want to get
married, she is 'exercising her options'.
*If a BM says NO, he is 'Confused'. If a BW says NO,
she is 'sure of herself'.
*If a BM dates a woman of another race, he is a
'Sellout'. If a BW dates a man of another race, she
is 'courageous'.
*If a BM does NOT ask a particular BW for a date, he
is judged to be 'gay'. If a BW can't get a date, she
is 'misunderstood'.
*If a BM goes to church and not the club, he is
'emotionally disturbed'. If a BW goes to a club and
not to church, she is being 'entertained'.
*If a BM is the father of an OOW child and wants to
marry the mother, he is a 'desparate thug'. If a BW
has OOW children and decides NOT to get married, she
is 'a upright Queen'.
*If a BM is unemployed, he is a 'Loser'. If a BW is
unemployed she is 'Exploring'.
*If a BM lives at home with his parents, he is a
'Punk'. If a BW lives at home with her parents, she
is 'Conserving Her Resources'.
*If a BM smacks a BW it is 'Domestic Violence'. If a
BW smacks a BM is it 'Making Her Voice Heard'.
*If a BM wears a blue collar and sweats on a job, he
has 'No Ambition'. If a BW wears a blue collar and
sweats on a job, she is 'A blossoming employee'.
*If a BM starts a business, he is a 'Shade Tree'. If
a BW starts a business, she is an 'Entrepreneur'.
*If a BM watches sports, he is a 'Brute'. If a BW
watches Montel and Oprah, she is 'Informed'.
*If a BM is treating his woman right...he is
'Invisible'. If a BW is treating her man right...she
is 'Suffering in Silence'.
*If a BM is a loving husband and parent, he is
'Obligated'. If a BW is a loving wife and parent, she
is 'Illuminated'.
*If a BM is spiritually centered, he is 'Trapped in
the 'White Man's' Religion. If a BW is spiritually
centered, she is 'Connected with the Ancestors'.
Funny. We were BOTH African when we got onto the
ships. What happened to some of YOU?
Black womanhood has been puffed, puffed, puffed up to
the size of a BLIMP.
A BROTHER CAN BE DAMNED IF HE DON'T, AND DAMNED IF HE
DOES...BUT HE IS STILL A FORCE TO BE HEARD...A BLACK
MAN!
Peace
Manhoodline
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