Omilord, I am getting nervous! But an excited nervous--so that is good.
I actually heard about the 'free' juniors too, and I wrote to an advisor to greek life/student affairs to ask about that. She hasn't gotten back to me though...
But that is okay because...I FINALLY FOUND MY LOCAL PANHELLENIC ASSOC!!

I talked to the prez last night, she assures me that I am not past help, although she did caution me to the fact that the junior thing WILL hurt me in some houses. That's okay, I had pretty much gathered that thus far.
She was so sweet and excited for me, it made me realize (again) just how much I want this to work.

Fingers crossed!
And bettie, I pm'd you!