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Originally posted by PNMsMom
My daughter will be going thru rush this fall and she is very concerned about keeping up her grades. If she asked a member what the house grade point was, would she automatically be labled a nerd and dropped?
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I'm not sure how sororities work on your campus and how image conscious they are. Maybe if the girls are there to look good and earn their Mrs. Degree then it wouldn't be a good idea to ask.
But I think in the end I'd want to represent myself in the best light and as truthfully as possible to be where I fit in and can have the opportunities to be happy and do well. If good grades are a concern for your daughter, she shouldn't shy away from that.
In addition to Betarulz's post, I'd say to ask if there are study hours and things like that. In my chapter, we have mandatory library hours. One of my favorite memories from our pledge program was watching one of the brothers study with his little. The little did not understand a book and even though the brother wasn't taking that class, took the time to read it and sit down with him to help him on his paper.
-Rudey