This is a good one. Personally if I have to second guess myself or have doubts about something then I don't follow through. The fact that you have doubts Soror is a sign. Please listen to it. Listen to what your instincts are telling you. If it is saying NO then go with that. With other Sorors their instincts might tell them something differently.
Also Soror, you do not want to feel uncomfortable when you are out trying to enjoy yourself. When I wear "nalia" I wear them with confidence without uncertainty. When I wear my "nalia" I always look my best and that means I feel my best too. No doubts, no conflicts, no concerns. This works for me. Find what works for you and go with that. And if in doubt you know your Sorors are always here
AKA
Spr. 02, #1
TMO