I am not a member of a sorority, therfore I do not have any sorors. However, I am the second oldest of 7 sisters and If I didn't like or stopped speaking to everyone that they hated/dislike/what have you, I'd be one lonely individual.
On the other hand I have one particular sister that is my favorite. Growing up I fought ALL her battles. I would take her beatings and her punishments. It did come to the point where if she didn't like you, I'd have a definite problem with you. Particularly because everyone knew that I had her back, whether right or wrong. Now this is also the sister that I fought with the most. I knew she was a habitual liar and trouble maker. So I learned first hand that there was no point in making someone else's problems mine. I have since adopted this philosophy and stick by it.
So to answer your question, I believe that your friend is very narrow minded and childish. However we all learn from our mistakes. Hopefully her foolish thinking will not hurt in the end. It took a big altercation for me to learn that lesson. Thankfully I was still a child and not a young adult or adult. Ultimately all things come with maturity. Obviously our ages are no indication of our maturity levels. Now Pop, you are a very mature lady,
so as the saying goes " I get by with a little help from my friends". As her friend I am sure she values your opinion and insight. Good luck!
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"Don't hate me because I'm beautiful"
When da EAST is in da house....Oh my GOD!!!! DANGER!
[This message has been edited by OhSoPrettyNikki (edited April 03, 2001).]