Bothersome Question
I have a situation that is bugging the mess out me and I wanted to see what my SF's/AKA women thought about it.
Recently my friend made a statement that bothered me. During a conversation she *seriously* told me "If I hate someone, then all my Sorors betta hate them too."
Now I'm all for people (especially women) backing up their sistah's/sorors/whomevers, but I felt that this statement was rather immature.
I know that the word "SOROR" is Latin for sister and therefore a sorority is supposed to be like a group of sisters. But let’s get real for a second! Would you all really stop speaking to a person and/or stop being friends with a person because they are having some beef with your friend/soror?! Shoot! On my campus there are 52 AKA's...they ALL can't be friends with everybody. If they followed my friend’s theory, collectively I bet they'd have a problem with 25% of our general population. That's a lot of hatin'! *lol*
For me it depends on the size of the situation. If there was major disrespect or a physical encounter then I could certainly understand.
Please help me understand. I'm am too upset with this girl!
[This message has been edited by Poplife (edited April 03, 2001).]
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