[gamma_girl52]

Thanks ladies for the advice. That's what I'm trying to do at this very moment. We have decided that our next move, will be further away (would you believe that I live not even 5 minutes away from my mom) and we want to focus more on our future together.

I agree with Snuggles. My parents divorced after 19 years of marriage; I was 18 at the time, my sister 16. I really do believe that they stayed together (and really tried to make it work) because of us. Sometimes, though, just because the children are older doesn't necessarily mean they handle it better. My sister did not take the divorce well at all. I did better but I felt I had to because I was older.