I agree with the suggestions to take her out to lunch. If you guys were 'madd cool' before, then approach it from a 'I'm worried about you, girl and you know we need to stick together' point of view. That may lessen her natural tendency to get defensive. Also, before you go to her, ask yourself what you are willing to do about the situation. What if she tells you she is over her head and needs help? Are you willing to assist her in her tasks? Also, how does her 'slackness' (for lack of a better word) effect you and your job?
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