I want to say THANK YOU to all of your comments. I'm not married or engaged to be married.....YET
But I have had some thoughts about being married and if things will work out. I know of a couple who have been married for 26 years and separated in their 25th year. I just don't understand that! I mean I know what happened in the relationship, but I just don't understand why folks don't want to try to work things out or change for the better.
At any rate, I will keep in mind the comments made here and make a few lists of my own and learn to look at things from his point of view more often.