This thread is very interesting to me, because I have never gone through formal recruitment as a PNM or a sister. I see that I have a lot to look forward to.
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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
I realize that there are no dumb questions, but I did get one last year that came very, very close. I was rescuing one of my sisters from a painful conversation with a rushee who was flat-out rude every time she came to the house, when she looked at me with a semi-interested expression and asked, "Who lavaliered you?" I automatically looked down and thought, "WTF?" because I was wearing my own DZ lavalier. I replied that my big sis had given it to me on Big/Little Revealing Night, and the girl gave me a strange look like I had sprouted antennae and said obnoxiously, "But I thought only guys could give girls lavaliers?" Um...OK.
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I definitely see what you were saying and I think that I would feel the same way if I were in your position, but like many other things that people get confused about when it comes to sororities, maybe she honestly thought that. However, there was no need for her to be rude!