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Originally posted by Discogoddess:
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Just because I asked you a question, and gave my opinion about your original post, doesn't mean I don't know any women who might fit your definition of "hard to love." I also know that we (women and men) attract to ourselves what we put out, so when our relationships don't go well, time and again, it's best to look at ourselves before pointing the finger. I just don't see how name-calling (rockhead, stubborn, hard-headed, etc.) is the right vehicle to express that opinion.
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As you know, name-calling isn't always a bad thing. It can be done benevolently as well. I have female friends who I call "rockheads"; and I do this affectionately-and they know this. I call them that in reference to their m.o. when it comes to men; and also when they show how closed-minded they are. They know how I mean it; and they appreciate our relationship.
Oh yeah; let me be the first to say: Being a Rockhead is irrespective of gender!
I hope that makes some of you feel better.
SweettgaBrown,
Pandora's Box wasn't all that bad
[This message has been edited by The Original Ape (edited March 27, 2001).]