[The Original Ape]

Originally posted by Discogoddess:
Bruh:

I can get with you on the emotional issues thing, but what do you mean about "too stubborn"? In my mind, many brothers assume that because a woman has her own mind is prepared to use it on a daily basis, that she is "stubborn" or "too sassy" or whatever. Of course, I do feel that many times we (as in all people) must go along to get along, but I also don't feel like I should hide the very asset that attracted the brother(s) to me in the first place (outside of the physical), my MIND and its ability to express itself.

I'm reserving judgement on your question until I hear back from you...

[This message has been edited by Discogoddess (edited March 26, 2001).]

There is a difference between being an independent thinker, and simply stubborn/hard-headed.