Soror you couldn't have said it better. This is getting to be out of control. Sorors we really need to start taking our process alot more serious....I have some girlfriends that I dearly love, but I know they do not have the social graces to be apart of such a exquisite organization. We need to stop allowing the process to be for the ones we like to kick it with, but doesn't really meet our standards. I pray that we get back to what our founders posessed.
I'm sorry call me concieted if you want, but I don't need to reaveal my history or wear paraphanelia to be recognized as a lady of pink and green...It is all over me...When I walk, talk, and dress. Before I became a lady of pink and green I pocessed an essence that one would have thought I was already a member. So, loviest95 I feel you in every way. Those were some insightful words soror. IF we could just get sorors to take heed, we would represent the creed.
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Originally posted by loviest95:
[of "observation" this was a time during which them members of XWZ sorority watched you in both formal and informal settings and basically decided if you were 'worthy'..
Then there was a semester of pledging.. and from what she told me there was no hitting and such foolishness...but they were taught the ins and out of social graces
So in a nutshell we are not teaching our new sorors that
DISCRETION is the KEY to Keep the unity when everyone knows out our bussiness goes
So discrestion means prudent knowing when to be silent....etc
Well I am sure some of you know the rest of the poem...
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