A good reference for events in the NYC area in general is my fellow Hamptonian's page:
http://www.socialstep.com. Although you were asking for things pertaining to Alpha Kappa Alpha; I thought that you would also find that to be helpful. It's good to network in the general sense...
Otherwise, pick up copies of the Village Voice, etc. to find out more about social and cultural venues. I'm a native New Yorker...and I know there is much for you to see and do to keep you socially active.
[This message has been edited by nikki25 (edited March 20, 2001).]