As a future lawyer myself, I know what you are going through. Well, I don't know how deep your situations
really is right now, but I will soon find out.
This may not apply to your situation, but I think that it applies to mine. Maybe you will see a relation. I have always been like you (down-for-whatever kind of friend), but sometimes I don't get that in return. I have also noticed that my time and troubles are not taken into consideration because everyone thinks that because I'm
single, I can't have
that much to worry about. I have often gotten calls at 2 or 3 a.m. from some friend crying and going crazy. I usually get up and talk to them until they are cool. However, by the rising of the sun the next day, the problem is forgotten on their end. When you finally call them, it's like, "Oh yeah. Well, Jimmy called me and we're cool." WHEN WERE YOU GONNA TELL ME?
My life does not revolve around my man (when I have one). I have bigger fish to fry. Don't let people transfer all of their negative energy on you. When I was away at school trying to do my thing, people would call me. HELLO? I've got a 9 a.m. class! Why are you calling me at 4? Now that I'm studying for the LSAT, it seems that since everyone doesn't understand the importance, they are blowing it off. I have solved this problem by using my Cller ID box and turning off my cell after 1 a.m. I don't want to hear it. Tell your drama filled friends that you are going through some stuff right now and you need to concentrate. Let them work it out. If they can't, at least you'll be able to represent them in a few months!