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Originally posted by Miss. Mocha:
How can you tell other people what products well?
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Good question and I'm not offended at all. I like people that ask and not assume.
To start, I didn't TELL anyone what to use. I suggested they look at black companies, many of whom make wonderful products. I can't tell you which ones work best for you. If you tell me how your hair is I can SUGGEST what might work. I've gotten pretty good with matching hair products to hair types. You just have to go out and try it. My friends with perms ask me about Carol's Daughter all the time (she makes products for permed and natural folks).
That brings me to another statement you made.
I had a good laugh at your line about you trusting your relaxed hair to me. What do you think I'm going to do? Tell you that Nair is a great conditioner? *lol*
It's not even that serious, sistah.
You think I'm militant because you don't know me. VERY FEW people on this board do. I can't blame you though. Sometimes when I read what I have written I surprise myself. If you were to have class with me, live near me, and even talk with me on a daily basis, you would never know my thoughts on anything I have discussed here because I don't share how I feel about sensitive topics with people I don't know. I don't bother speaking from the heart because most folks don't want to know or aren't ready for the way I'm going to say it.
Discogoddess said something about getting more flies with honey. That's true for some things, but we are living in a bitter world so I speak the bitter truth.
And for the last time, it's not being chemical-free that makes me "militant"!!!
It's the actions and attitudes that ignorant people have inflicted on me.
THAT'S what puts the fire in my belly.
Peace and Blessings.